1. When you meet a girl, don't think of sex first; don't ask for sex. Even if you are mkpi, pretend that you are a monk for some time.

2. Don't go searching for a virgin, if you are not a virgin yourself. All the girls you have massacred, who will marry them. Besides, there no record that virgins make better wives or are more faithful in marriage.

3. If you are a "modern man," don't look for a "village girl that knows nothing." Soon you will start complaining that she is too local to fit into your circle of enlightened friends. Besides, a village girl may "wise up" and trouble will start in your home.

4. Don't look for a girl that is afraid of you: a girl you can always intimidate. Fear is not respect.