Leke Adeboye, son of Pastor E.A. Adeboye, general overseer of Redeemed
Church, and his wife Titilope, has finally opened up on their marriage
and the "difficult" issue of abstaining from séx until wedding night.
Below is the interesting chat that tell it all...
Thank you so much for agreeing to do this! It’s a delight to be able
to hear your story and more importantly, share to bless people. Could we
please start off with a brief introduction?
Leke: Introduction of his wife Titilope Adeboye... How do I introduce
this fine hot lady?... Forget that she’s my wife, for any random girl –
that is still amazing! Lol
What else, she runs me! She’s my Manager, I call her my CEO.. She’s my
Account Manager, she runs my entity as a personality and then she runs a
number of businesses – Oasis Suya Eatery and Sharwama and she’s also
the owner of Mimi’s Confectionery.
My wife is multi-skilled and multi-talented and takes every advantage to
improve herself. Whatever she sets her mind on, she would do it! And
she CAN do it! I’m proud of that and I basically support, support
support!. She studied Mass Communication in the University and got a
First Class from behind a 2:1 (laughter).
Bessem Okafor, the estranged wife of the pastor of Mountain of
Liberation Miracles Ministires, Pastor Chris Okafor, has shown how her
husband beat her up mercilessly at their home in the Magodo are of
Lagos.
Bessem who left her home in 2012, said she had, a few weeks ago, gone to
visit her four children who were in the custody of their father, Pastor
Chris, based on an agreement.
Few hours after their children had left for school, Bessem received a
phone call from Pastor Chris who had also left the house. He questioned
why she was still in his house and and ordered her to leave. But Bessem
said she had promised her children that she would wait and see them
after school before leaving.
At this point, Pastor Chris sent a policeman who was part of his entourage to the house to send his wife out.
The wife said, “The policeman told me to leave the house. At that time, I
was wearing only my dress. I had washed my undies and spread them to
dry since I didn’t come with extra.
The visit was said to have been arranged by a lawyer
from Office of Public Defender in Lagos State Ministry of Justice, and
her husband’s lawyer, Mr. Onyechukwu Ubani.
While speaking with Punch, Bessem said: “I have not seen my children for
nine months and our lawyers agreed that I could come see them at home
after school hours by 5pm. I went to the house at the appointed time,
but my children were not there.
Men please don't allow things to get out of hand before you seek help,
many ladies these days can't cope with a man who is not active in the
inner chamber. #GoFigure! A Lagos-based hairdresser, Mrs Suzy Adeleke,
on Friday pleaded with an Ikorodu Customary Court to dissolve her
six-year-old marriage over her husband's séxual weakness.
Lady Suzy, who resides at No. 2, Anifowoshe St., Ewu-Elepe in Ikorodu,
said that her husband, James, had not performed well on bed since they
got married in 2008. She told the court that she was having séx with her
husband only once in two months when they were living together.
Mr Iweka Nnamdi, a 32-year-old man, a graduate of Nnamdi Azikiwe
University has been arrested by the Lagos Police command for allegedly
blackmailing and extorting money from unsuspecting female victims.
Nnamdi used multiple Facebook profiles, where he impersonates notable
persons in the society such as the Secretary to the State Government
Senator Anyim Pius Anyim, House of Rep Speaker Aminu Tambuwal, Michael
Adenuga, actor Van Vicker and a host of others, to deceive cheap women.
Here's what Nnamdi do to ladies: "He met a female banker on
facebook where he posed as one of the big shots in Nigeria. After
chatting with her for sometime, he invited her to a hotel in Ajah on
March 14, 2014, where he had her. Unknown to the female banker, a camp
coder was placed in a corner of the hotel room, where all that
transpired was recorded...
Love and trust are very important in marriage and couples are expected
to uphold these ideals to sustain their marriage. However, infidelity is
one of the challenges in marriage that has ruined many promising homes.
So, PUNCH asked some people what they would do if they meet their
spouses doing it live with another person in their homes. Below are
their interesting responses:
I went mad when it happened to me
Did you know it has happened to me before? I couldn’t believe it would
ever happen to me. It was just like a dream and I could hardly believe
it. Although it was very painful, I knew life must continue. I wanted to
run mad on that day, but as a Christian, I just had to restrain
myself...
I was just mute when I caught my wife red-handed with another man. I
called her after the whole thing and told her to be with whoever would
make her happy. I forgave her afterwards.
She was naive and the man took advantage of her, now the result has come out:
I am a 19 year old lady. My parents have been separated since I was
about 8, and I’m an only child. Since I was about 12 years old, I have
been engaging in a sexual affair with my mother’s younger brother who
lives with us. When it started initially, it scared me a lot, and when I
told my mum, she dismissed my report and accused me of making it up, I
even got shouted at for trying to ’ spoil his name’.
Afterwards, I began to enjoy being with him, I was young, so the little
treats he would give me made me feel like he genuinely loved me as he
claimed. He was responsible for picking me up from school and I would be
home alone with him, whilst I did my homework, he would touch me and I
was vulnerable so I responded, and even performed oral sex on him, and I
would promise not to tell anybody because nobody would believe me.
This life is a mystery. Bad girls end up enjoying best of life and some
will later repent and enjoyment continue but what are we going to make
of ladies who choose to live right from day one, yet things are not
working?
This woman's situation captures one of such confusing scenarios. Read her story below:
I'm 40years old today and I'm the saddest person alive. So I'm writing
this letter today to God through your blog hoping somebody somewhere can
help me make sense of my life.
Dear God,
I'm 40 today and I hate the life you have given me. This isn't living.
Being dead is better than this. Haba God, after my sacrifice, after
serving you in truth and in spirit. You bring me shame? I have no money,
no kids, no husband and you want me to continue serving you. Haha!
From 18, I served your church till now; when my mates were busy having séx with their future husbands I was in church for praise and worship, cleaning chairs, going for revival, visitation, paying my tithes. etc.
Dear God, you no try! If I were you, I would have blessed me since. I
never disobeyed my parents while they were alive. I read my bible daily,
I was a virgin till I was 31 for Christ sake. Haba!
This is the bitter truth!
...Jim Iyke's sweetheart is a cute and séxy babe!
According to Ghana Celebrities: It took me a long time to buy into the
speculation that Nadia Buari and Jim Iyke were not only bang-ing mates,
but were truly in a relationship. Even when my sources close to Nadia
Buari confirmed to me that she was in a real relationship with Jim Iyke,
I just couldn’t bring myself to accept this — and always wondered how
Nadia Buari was going to handle Jim Iyke’s temper.
I only truly accepted that their relationship was real when my sources
at a hotel they both stayed in at East Legon (a place I’ve stayed
before) also mentioned that, Jim and Nadia were hiding there in one
room—splashing what seems like love all over the place…But that was
then!